How to navigate mattress shopping without losing your mind (or your back)
Let’s Be Honest: Mattress Shopping Is The Worst
There. We said it.
You scroll through endless websites drowning in a sea of “ultra-plush euro-pillowtop memory gel infinity foam” jargon that sounds like it was invented by a committee of marketing executives and mad scientists.
Everyone has an opinion. Your chiropractor says firm. Your spouse says soft. Your neighbor swears by that mattress they saw on late-night TV. The internet tells you seventeen different things, and half of those contradict the other half. Even famed movie star Matthew McConaughey weighs in the discussion saying, “We got a queen-size where we’re shoulder to shoulder. I’m telling you, it’s good for your marriage.”
And don’t even get us started on that one guy who insists you should sleep on the floor because “that’s what our ancestors did.” (Cool story, Chad. Our ancestors also didn’t have Netflix and indoor plumbing, but here we are.)
Here’s the good news: You’ve found Millwest Amish Furniture, where we’ve been selling Monarch Rest mattresses for over 30 years. We know these mattresses inside and out because we believe in the philosophy that quality craftsmanship and honest products matter more than flashy marketing.
Here’s the even better news: This guide will walk you through exactly how to find your perfect Monarch Rest mattress without the confusion, pressure, or overwhelming you!
Let’s do this.
Step 1: Know Thyself (The Sleep Edition)
Before you even look at a single mattress, let’s figure out who you are as a sleeper. This isn’t a personality test, but it is about getting honest with yourself about your sleep habits.
️ Your Sleep Position Matters Most
Side Sleepers (The Majority of Humans):
- You need pressure relief at shoulders and hips
- Too-firm mattresses = numb arms and achy hips
- Sweet spot: Plush to Medium firmness (2-4 on the Monarch scale)
- Your vibe: Integrity Luxe, Fuchsia, Perfect Choice Latex, Elite Luxe
Back Sleepers (The Spine-Alignment Crew):
- You need balanced support – not too soft, not too firm
- Goldilocks zone: Medium to Medium-Firm (4-6)
- You want to avoid that “hammock effect” where your lower back sags
- Your vibe: Integrity Essential, Elite Premier, Resilience
Stomach Sleepers (The Rare Breed):
- You need firmness to prevent your hips from sinking
- If your hips sink, your spine curves, and your back hates you by morning
- Your zone: Firm to Extra Firm (6-8)
- Your vibe: Elite Firm, Integrity Essential Extra Firm
Combination Sleepers (The Restless Souls):
- You rotate through all positions like a rotisserie chicken
- You need versatility and responsiveness
- Look for Medium firmness with good bounce-back
- Your vibe: Perfect Choice (so you can adjust!), Integrity Premier
Real Talk: Most people are side/back combination sleepers. If that’s you, aim for Medium (4-5 range) and you’ll be golden.
️ Temperature: Are You Hot, Cold, or Goldilocks?
Hot Sleepers (The Blanket Kickers):
- You wake up feeling like you’ve been sleeping in a sauna
- Your partner complains you’ve turned the bedroom into an icebox
- What you need: Breathable materials = Natural Latex
- Your mattresses: Conforma Latex, Elite Luxe, Integrity Luxe, Resilience Luxe
- Avoid: Heavy memory foam (gel-infused is better, but latex is king for cooling)
Cold Sleepers (The Blanket Burrito Brigade):
- You sleep in socks year-round
- You’ve been known to use a space heater in July
- What you need: Materials that retain warmth = Memory Foam
- Your mattresses: Conforma Gel, Perfect Choice Gel, Integrity Premier
Goldilocks (Just Right):
- Temperature doesn’t really bother you much
- You’re lucky and we’re jealous
- Your mattresses: Literally anything in the lineup will work
Pain Points: What Hurts?
*Quick note: We’re mattress experts, not doctors. If you have chronic pain or medical conditions, talk to your healthcare provider first. These are general guidelines based on 30+ years of helping customers find comfortable sleep – not medical advice.*
Lower Back Pain:
- You probably need more support than you think
- Too-soft mattresses let your spine sag
- Try: Medium-Firm to Firm (5-7 range)
- Bonus: Consider an adjustable base (Resilience line is designed for this)
Shoulder/Hip Pain:
- You’re probably a side sleeper who’s been sleeping too firm
- You need pressure relief and contouring
- Try: Plush to Medium (2-4 range)
- Materials that help: Latex or memory foam comfort layers
Neck Pain:
- This is often about your pillow, not your mattress
- But if your mattress is too soft, your whole spine alignment is off
- Try: Medium to Medium-Firm (4-6)
Joint Pain/Arthritis:
- You need pressure relief without sacrificing support
- Natural latex is often ideal (responsive but gentle)
- Strongly consider: Adjustable base for elevation options
- Your line: Resilience series (designed for health-conscious folks 75+)
No Pain (You Lucky Human):
- You have the freedom to choose based purely on comfort preference
- This is like shopping for ice cream when you like all the flavors
- Live your best life
Partner Considerations: The Couples Edition
Different Firmness Preferences:
- This is the #1 couples mattress argument
- Solution: Perfect Choice series with customizable toppers
- Alternative: Split King with Resilience line (two Twin XLs = one King, different firmness)
Motion Transfer (The “Stop Bouncing Me!” Problem):
- One partner moves, the other one feels it
- Light sleeper + restless partner = nobody’s happy
- Solution: Pocket coil systems = motion isolation
- Your series: Integrity (best), Resilience (also pocket coils)
- Avoid: Traditional innerspring (Elite, Quiet Night) – they transfer more motion
Weight Difference:
- Significant weight differences can affect mattress feel/durability
- Consider edge support (all Monarch mattresses have this)
- May need firmer mattress than expected for proper support
Step 2: The Monarch Rest Lineup – Finding Your Series
Alright, you know yourself. Now let’s match you with your mattress soulmate.
Think of the Monarch Rest lineup like a coffee menu. You’ve got your everyday drip coffee (Quiet Night), your fancy lattes (Integrity), and your “I’m treating myself” premium options (Fuchsia). They’re all quality coffee, just different styles for different needs and budgets.
☕ QUIET NIGHT: The “Budget-Friendly Quality” Series
Price: $
Personality: No-frills, straightforward, reliable
Best for: Guest rooms, kids’ rooms, budget-conscious shoppers who still want quality
The Vibe: This is the series that proves “budget-friendly” doesn’t mean “cheap junk.” Traditional innerspring construction, 20-year warranty, handcrafted quality – just without the bells and whistles.
Who This Is For:
- First apartment dwellers
- Parents furnishing kids’ bedrooms
- Guest room mattresses that don’t get daily use
- Anyone who wants quality basics without luxury materials
Real Talk: This is like buying a Toyota Camry. Not flashy, but reliable, well-built, and will last.
Model Breakdown:
- Quiet Night: Single-sided, basic (Mattress Height 9-10″)
- Quiet Night Duo: Double-sided for longer life (Mattress Height 10-12″)
- Quiet Night Luxe: Single-sided with extra pillowtop comfort (Mattress Height 11″)
☕☕ ELITE: The “Two-Sided Gold Standard” Series
Price: $$
Personality: Classic, durable, value-focused
Best for: People who want serious longevity and don’t mind flipping their mattress
The Vibe: The Elite series is like buying a well-made leather jacket. Higher upfront investment, but you’ll have it forever. The double-sided design means you flip it twice a year (Spring/Fall) and it wears evenly for maximum lifespan.
Who This Is For:
- Value-seekers who think long-term
- People who don’t mind a little mattress maintenance (flipping)
- Anyone who likes traditional innerspring feel with premium materials
- Folks who want “the mattress I’ll pass down to my kids” energy
The Secret Weapon: Offset coil system (more flexible than basic Bonnell coils) + 12.75 gauge wire (stronger than industry standard)
Model Breakdown:
- Elite: Benchmark double-sided quality (Mattress Height 10.5-13″)
- Elite Premier: Thicker padding + enhanced edge support (Mattress Height 13″)
- Elite Luxe: Natural Talalay latex comfort layers (Mattress Height 14″)
☕☕☕☕ CONFORMA: The “Foam Core Specialist” Series
Price: $$$$
Personality: Modern, adjustable-base friendly, foam lovers
Best for: People who want foam mattresses or use adjustable bases
The Vibe: No springs here – just high-density foam cores with your choice of gel-infused memory foam or natural latex on top. These are built to bend with adjustable bases without breaking a sweat.
Who This Is For:
- Memory foam enthusiasts
- Adjustable base users
- People who want that “sleep on a cloud” feel
- Anyone who needs a mattress that flexes/bends
Why It’s Different: Most mattresses have innerspring cores. Conforma says “nah” and goes all-foam for maximum flexibility.
Model Breakdown:
- Conforma Gel: Gel-infused memory foam top (Mattress Height10.5″)
- Conforma Latex: Natural Talalay latex top (Mattress Height 10.5″)
Firmness: Both come in Plush and Firm
☕☕☕-☕☕☕☕ PERFECT CHOICE: The “Revolutionary Topper” Series
Price: $$$-$$$$
Personality: Indecisive, adaptable, innovative
Best for: People who can’t decide on firmness or want seasonal options
The Vibe: This is the only mattress in the industry (that we know of) with a replaceable topper system. Can’t decide between memory foam and latex? Get one now, swap it later. Want firmer in summer, plusher in winter? Done. Changed your mind? No problem.
Who This Is For:
- Indecisive shoppers (no shame – mattresses are expensive!)
- People with changing needs (injury recovery, aging, weight changes)
- Couples who want to try different feels without buying a new mattress
- Anyone who likes having options
The Innovation: The top 2-3 inches of padding is a separate, replaceable layer. You can order new toppers under warranty and swap them yourself.
This Is Wild Because: Most mattresses are permanent. This one isn’t. It’s like having a wardrobe for your bed.
Model Breakdown:
- Perfect Choice Gel: Gel-infused memory foam topper (Mattress Height 13″)
- Perfect Choice Latex: Natural Talalay latex topper in THREE firmness (Mattress Height 13″)
☕☕☕-☕☕☕☕ INTEGRITY: The “Pocket Coil Luxury” Series
Price: $$$-$$$$
Personality: Premium, motion-isolating, couples-friendly
Best for: Couples, motion-sensitive sleepers, luxury seekers
The Vibe: This is the “best of both worlds” series. You get the support of innerspring (966-2,115 independent pocket coils!) with the luxury of premium foam and latex layers. Each coil moves independently, so when your partner moves, you don’t feel it.
Who This Is For:
- Couples with different sleep styles
- Light sleepers who feel every movement
- People who want luxury without going full-foam
- Anyone who values motion isolation
The Technology: Pocketed coils are individually wrapped in fabric and move independently. Traditional innerspring coils are all connected, so movement transfers across the whole mattress. Pocket coils = way less disturbance.
Model Breakdown:
- Integrity Essential: High-density poly foam comfort (Mattress Height 13.5″)
- Integrity Premier: Memory foam + latex combo layers (Mattress Height 14″)
- Integrity Luxe: All natural Talalay latex comfort (Mattress Height 13″)
Works with adjustable bases!
☕☕-☕☕☕☕☕ RESILIENCE: The “Adjustable Base Specialist” Series
Price: $$-$$$$$
Personality: Health-conscious, adjustable-focused, two-sided quality
Best for: People 75+, adjustable base users, health conditions (sleep apnea, joint pain, GERD)
The Vibe: This series was specifically designed for adjustable bases AND it’s double-sided (flip every 6 months). It’s like the Elite series had a baby with modern sleep technology.
Who This Is For:
- Seniors and aging adults
- Anyone with sleep apnea (elevation helps)
- People with chronic pain or joint issues
- GERD/acid reflux sufferers (head elevation)
- Anyone who wants adjustable + longevity
The Options: Three different core types (pocket coil, super high-density foam, or all-latex) with the same natural latex top layer on all models.
Model Breakdown:
- Resilience: Pocket coil innerspring core (Mattress Height 12″)
- Resilience Premier: Super high-density foam core (Mattress Height 10″)
- Resilience Luxe: All natural latex construction (Mattress Height 10″)
Each comes in Plush, Firm, and Extra Firm options
☕☕☕ FUCHSIA: The “Crown Jewel Flagship” Series
Price: $$$ (Premium tier) ⚠️ Verify current pricing
Personality: Luxurious, exotic materials, “treat yourself” energy
Best for: Luxury seekers, people who value premium natural materials
The Vibe: This is the “I’m worth it” mattress. Launched in 2024 as Monarch’s flagship luxury model, the Fuchsia features materials you typically only see in mattresses that cost twice as much: New Zealand wool from free-grazing sheep, Mongolian cashmere, natural Talalay latex, gel-infused memory foam, and micro-pocketed steel coils.
Who This Is For:
- People who value natural, sustainable materials
- Luxury shoppers who want the best
- Anyone seeking unique, exotic comfort materials
- Hot sleepers (wool and cashmere naturally regulate temperature)
The Materials Story:
- New Zealand wool from free-grazing sheep (temperature regulating)
- Mongolian cashmere from nomad-tended Kashmir goats (cloud-like softness)
- Natural Talalay latex (responsive, long-lasting support)
- Gel-infused memory foam (contouring comfort)
- Micro-pocketed steel coils (individualized support)
Model Breakdown:
- Fuchsia: Single-sided luxury (Mattress Height 15.5″)
- Fuchsia DUO: Double-sided luxury (Mattress Height 17″)
Step 3: Firmness Demystified – The 1-8 Scale
Let’s talk about the most confusing part of mattress shopping: firmness.
The problem? “Firm” means different things to different people. Your “firm” might be someone else’s “medium.” Your grandma’s “plush” might feel like sleeping on concrete to you.
Monarch Rest uses a 1-8 scale across all their mattresses, which helps, but you still need to know what those numbers actually mean for your body.
The Firmness Scale Decoder:
1-2: Extra Plush / Plush
- Feels like: Sleeping on a cloud made of marshmallows
- Sink factor: You sink in significantly
- Best for: Lightweight side sleepers (under 150 lbs)
- Red flag for: Stomach sleepers, heavier individuals, back pain sufferers
- Models: Conforma Gel Plush (1), Perfect Choice Gel (1), Integrity Luxe Extra Plush (2)
3-4: Medium Plush
- Feels like: Hugging you without swallowing you
- Sink factor: Gentle contouring with good support underneath
- Best for: Side sleepers, average weight (130-230 lbs), pressure relief needs
- Red flag for: Stomach sleepers still need firmer
- Models: Elite Plush (3), Integrity Essential Plush (3), Quiet Night Firm (4)
5-6: Medium / Medium Firm
- Feels like: Balanced – neither too soft nor too firm
- Sink factor: Minimal sinking, good support
- Best for: Back sleepers, combination sleepers, most people honestly
- The “Goldilocks Zone”: This range works for the widest variety of people
- Models: Resilience Plush (5), Elite Firm (7), Integrity Essential Firm (5)
7-8: Firm / Extra Firm
- Feels like: Sleeping on something solid with a thin comfort layer
- Sink factor: Almost none
- Best for: Stomach sleepers, heavier individuals (230+ lbs), severe back pain (with doctor guidance)
- Red flag for: Side sleepers (pressure points will hate you)
- Models: Integrity Essential Extra Firm (8), Resilience Extra Firm (7)
The Firmness Reality Check
“But I’ve always slept on a firm mattress!”
Cool. But have you been sleeping well? Sometimes we stick with what we know, even if it’s not ideal. If you’re waking up with numb arms, achy hips, or feeling like you didn’t actually rest, your “firm” might be too firm.
“I weigh [X] pounds – what firmness do I need?”
General guidelines:
- Under 130 lbs: Plush to Medium (2-5)
- 130-230 lbs: Medium to Medium-Firm (4-6)
- 230+ lbs: Medium-Firm to Firm (6-8)
BUT this is just a starting point. Sleep position trumps weight.
“My partner and I need different firmness!”
Options:
- Perfect Choice series – Start with one firmness, swap the topper later if needed
- Split King/Cal King – Two Twin XL mattresses = one King bed, different firmness
- Compromise in the Medium range (4-5) – Usually works for most couples
“How do I know if I’m guessing right?”
Honestly? You won’t know for sure until you’ve slept on it. That’s the challenge with any mattress purchase. But you can make an educated decision based on your sleep position, body weight, and current mattress experience. And remember: Monarch’s 20-year warranty means they stand behind their products.
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Step 4: After You Choose Your Mattress
Once you’ve selected your perfect Monarch Rest mattress, take a minute and read this! There’s one more important piece to consider: The Foundation.
This covers:
- Foundation options available from Millwest
- Why the right foundation matters for your warranty
- How to choose the best option for your setup
Now, let’s focus on ordering your mattress…
Step 5: Ordering Your Monarch Rest Mattress from Millwest
Here’s where we make this easy for you.
At Millwest Amish Furniture, we’ve been selling Monarch Rest mattresses for over 30 years. That’s three decades of experience helping customers find their perfect mattress, handling delivery, and providing ongoing support.
We know these mattresses inside and out. We believe in them. And we’re here to make your purchase as smooth as possible.
How to Order from Millwest
Order Online (Our Preferred Method)
We’ve made online ordering simple and straightforward:
- Browse our Monarch Rest collection on our website
- Select your mattress:
- Choose your series (Quiet Night, Elite, Integrity, etc.)
- Pick your model (Plush, Firm, Luxe, etc.)
- Select your size (Twin through Cal King, or custom)
- Confirm your firmness preference (1-8 scale)
- Choose your foundation type (14-slat, 8-slat, boxspring, bunkie board, or adjustable base)
- Add to cart and complete checkout
Prefer to See It in Person?
We totally get it – mattresses are a big investment, and sometimes you want to touch and feel before you buy.
Visit Our Showroom:
- Test select Monarch Rest models in person
- Get hands-on guidance from our experienced team
- Ask questions and make your decision with confidence
- Then order in-store or online when you’re ready
Location: 100 South Jefferson ave. (route 42) Plain City, Ohio 43064
Hours: Mon-Fri 10am – 5pm, Sat 10-1, closed Sunday
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Pre-Order Consultation Checklist, Click Below
Everything to consider before placing your Monarch Rest order
Step 6: Special Considerations
Couples: Split Kings & Different Firmness
The Challenge: You and your partner need different firmness levels.
Solutions:
Option 1: Perfect Choice Series
- Start with one firmness topper
- If one person isn’t happy, order a different topper through Millwest
- Swap it out yourselves
Option 2: Split King Configuration
- Two Twin XL mattresses side-by-side = one King bed
- Each person gets their own firmness
- Works especially well with adjustable bases (Resilience line)
- Each side can adjust independently!
Option 3: Compromise in Medium Range
- Medium (4-5) firmness often works for both partners
- Not ideal, but functional
Option 4: Different Models Entirely
- Yes, you can order different series on each side
- One person gets Integrity, other gets Elite – totally doable
- Millwest can coordinate this for you
️ Adjustable Bases:
If You’re Considering an Adjustable Base:
- Choose: Conforma, Integrity, or Resilience series (designed for flex)
- Decide on tier: Ultra (luxury), Style (premium), or Brio (essential)
- Budget: Adjustable bases add $$$-$$$$$ to your purchase
Available Through Millwest: We offer all three tiers of Monarch Rest adjustable bases.
Step 7: The Final Decision Framework
Alright. You’ve done the research. You’ve figured out your sleep profile. You’ve narrowed down your series. Now it’s time to actually make a decision and order from Millwest.
When You’re Still Not Sure:
If you’ve gone through this whole guide and you’re still torn between options, here’s the tiebreaker advice:
Not Sure on Firmness? → Go with Medium (4-5) – works for most people, most positions
Worried About Making the Wrong Choice? → Perfect Choice series lets you swap toppers
Budget Stretched? → Remember: Price per year of use. A $2,400 mattress lasting 20 years = $120/year = $10/month. That’s less than Netflix.
Partner Can’t Agree? → Split King with Resilience line, or Perfect Choice with customizable toppers
Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This
Listen, we know mattress shopping isn’t anyone’s idea of a good time. It’s confusing, expensive, and you can’t really know if you made the right choice until you’ve slept on it for a few weeks.
But here’s what you do know now:
✅ You understand your sleep needs
✅ You know which Monarch Rest series match your profile
✅ You have realistic firmness expectations
✅ You understand foundation requirements
✅ You know how to order from Millwest with confidence
✅ You’ve got downloadable resources for reference
You’re as prepared as any mattress shopper has ever been.
Now it’s time to take that final step. Place your order with Millwest, and invest in 10-20 years of better sleep. Your back, your partner, and your grumpy morning self will thank you.
And remember: Monarch Rest has been handcrafting mattresses in Sugarcreek, Ohio since 1991 with the same philosophy: Better to build well than build fast.
At Millwest, we’ve been partnering with Monarch Rest for over 30 years because we believe in that same philosophy. We don’t sell these mattresses just because we can – we sell them because we genuinely believe they’re the best value and quality you can find.
Sweet dreams are made of this. ️
30+ years of Monarch Rest expertise. Trusted service. Quality you can sleep on.
Last Updated: October 2025
Published by: Millwest Amish Furniture
Based on: 30+ years of Monarch Rest partnership + June 2025 Official Product Catalog + October 2025 Manufacturing Facility Tour
